Our Home Ed Journey

Brutely Honest Home Ed Blog

This is the brutally story of our home ed journey.

The up and downs.

The struggles and highlights

The screams and the laughs

The tears and the joy

About me

I’m a single mother to an amazing 10 year old boy with autism.

I’ve gone through many struggles in life but I try not to dwell

Hitting that send button

I was so anxious writing out the deregistration email. There were so many questions running through my head. Is it the right time? How would I juggle work and Logan? Would home education even work? We wouldn’t know until we tried. I opened Facebook on my phone and went to my favourite home education group, HEFA, they’re a god send for anyone who is thinking about or is already home educating. Scrolling through the guides I found the one with a template for the deregistration email. Using their template I typed up the email. With the mouse hovering over the send button, I was filled with so many emotions. Hoping that I was making the right decision, I sent the email.

I felt so much relief once I had sent the email but I also felt anxious waiting for a reply from the head. From the many many posts on HEFA, I knew that some schools wouldn’t deregister and would push their luck, others would be quite understanding, and some wouldn’t even respond. I got a reply after a couple of hours. It was nothing much, just acknowledgement of my instructions. Then it hit, Logan was now classed as being home educated. I told Logan and he was overjoyed. This was the beginning of a new era.

The next day the atmosphere felt such more relaxed. I wasn’t quite sure what we were meant to be doing but we both felt relaxed. Later that day I got a phone call, I’d finally been allocated a social worker from the child disability team. For some strange reason I took enjoyment in saying that I had taken Logan out of school. We didn’t do much for the rest of the day. We needed time to decompress and adjust to a new way of life.

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